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The Willmer Family ~ Part One

Introduction

Most people who live in Farnham know of Willmer House in West Street – the home of the Farnham Museum. But who were the Willmer family? Surrey historian with a particular interest in Farnham, Roger White, and myself set out to discover all we could about this family. As the Willmer story unfolded, Roger and I realised that it was multi-generational, so we decided to separate the story into three posts. This post concerns Richard Willmer the Elder, who died in Farnham in 1761.

Willmer House of the 1700’s was in the ancient Tything of Dogfludd, an area east and south east of Farnham: Richard himself described the location as “Dogfludd Street, Farnham”. Today, of course, there is Dogflud Way in that part of Farnham. The building in West Street known today as Willmer House would have been referred to as ‘Mr John Thorn’s house’.

The Willmer Family were Woolcombers

In fact, the name ‘Willmer’ may have derived from a shortened, slurred version of ‘woolcomber’.

A woolcomber was a specialized, skilled craftsman responsible for combing raw wool to disentangle and straighten the fibres, preparing them for spinning into worsted or woollen yarns. This trade was essential to the textile industry, and in the 18th century, woolcombers were known as a labour “aristocracy” due to their high wages and strong, often exclusive, organization. (Source: History of Calderdale)

Richard Willmer of Farnham

Richard Willmer’s origins are unknown, but possibly from Petersfield; the important fact is that in 1708 he became a Farnham man for the rest of his life when he married Mary Corderoy of Farnham (Mary’s last name had varied spellings) in the Parish Church. At this time, Nathaniel Corderoy, is recorded in the Bishop of Winchester’s records as ‘Schoolmaster of Farnham’; in 1699, Nathaniel married local woman, Anne Terry, so perhaps Mary was his sister as she would have been too old to be his daughter.

The Vicar of Farnham, James Ford, recorded the marriage of Richard Willmer and the baptism of his children under the name ‘Wilmot or Wilmott’; he must have got that spelling in his head and stuck with it. As Richard’s signature on his Will shows, he knew he was ‘Willmer’ and he probably had no reason to look in the Farnham Parish Register.

Farnham Parish Register
Richard’s Signature

Richard Willmer had gone beyond his family’s traditional trade of woolcombing to actually making the worsted yarn which was used for clothing, gloves, and stockings. As other aspects of the English wool industry were in decline, the making of fine worsted was in the ascendancy. Richard’s business provided him with the funds to purchase the leases of two side by side properties in Dogfludd Street. In his own words: ‘the eastmost of my two tenements of the house where I now live along with the eastmost half of the adjoining hopground situated in Dogfludd Street, Farnham’ plus ‘the westmost half’ of the same, which he rented out.

As is often the case, Richard Willmer’s Will is the best source of information on his family so let us focus in on that document which is dated 20 January 1760. Richard died in Farnham, age 80, the following year.

Winton = Winchester where Richard Willmer’s Will was proved

This is the Last Will and Testament of me, Richard Willmer of Farnham in the County of Surrey, Worsted Maker. I do dispose of my Worldly Estate as follows:

  • Daughter Mary Eyles, widow, to have for life the eastmost of my two tenements of the house where I now live along with the eastmost half of the adjoining hopground situated in Dogfludd Street, Farnham. After her decease, property to go to her daughter Mary Eyles for ever.
  • Granddaughter Mary Eyles £10.
  • As long as my daughter Mary Eyles continues my trade of worsted maker, and maintains the properties in good repair, she shall have the use of the western half of my Dogfludd property. A further condition is that Mary is to pay my daughter Jane Burch of Petersfield (wife of Thomas) the yearly sum of 20 shillings.
  • At such time that Mary Eyles discontinues the trade of worsted making, or at her decease, the westmost half of the Dogfludd Street property with hopground to go to my daughter Jane Burch for ever.
  • Daughter Elizabeth, the Wife of Marmaduke Daintrey of Hartley Row in the County of Southampton, Gentleman, £20.
  • Daughter Joane, now the wife of William Turner £20, solely, separately and apart from her husband and he to have nothing to do with same.
  • Grandson Thomas Turner, son of Joane, £10 (Marmaduke Daintry to invest the money and use it to the benefit of Thomas who shall receive the capital at age 21).
  • Granddaughter, Anne Willmer, £10 (Marmaduke Daintrey to decide when it is the most advantageous to give her the money)
  • Grandsons, Richard and Thomas Willmer, £10 each and son-in-law, Thomas Burch, schoolmaster of Petersfield, to use the money for the maintenance and education of the boys.
  • Three grandsons, Richard and Thomas Willmer and Thomas Turner to share my woollen and linen wearing apparel.
  • Residue, including all my household goods and furniture, stock of worsted and yarn, my money and stock, to daughter Mary Eyles.
  • A stone to be erected over my grave the same as the one that is over the grave of my wife.
  • Executrix: Mary Eyles. Witnessed by John Geere, Richard Dare, and John Lacey.
  • Signed and sealed by Richard Willmer (2 sheets of paper)
  • 15 April 1761: Administration granted to daughter, Mary Eyles following her oath upon the holy Evangelists to faithfully administer the will in the presence of her surrogate, John Wigmore (Vicar of Farnham)

A simple family tree would be useful here:

We will look at Richard Willmer Junior in the next post – he predeceased his father.


Daughter, Mary Willmer married John Eyles (a Cordwainer from Bishop Waltham according to their marriage licence) in Farnham in 1738 and the couple had one surviving child – daughter Mary Eyles. Did Mary continue her father’s worsted making business as Richard so clearly wanted? Unfortunately, no record of this has been found, but as Mary Eyles lived on until 1779 and was buried in Farnham, we can perhaps assume that she did. The west half of the Dogflood property did pass to her sister Jane Burch as we will see below.

Richard’s granddaughter, Mary Eyles, stayed close to her roots and in 1763 married another woolcomber – William Hawke of Farnham. William’s occupation in a Trade Directory was described as ‘worsted manufacturer, stocking manufacturer textiles, clothing‘. Mary’s inheritance of the eastern half of her grandfather’s Dogflood property would then have become the property of her husband. Mary and William had eight children including ‘Marmaduke Hawk‘ (known only as a bachelor of Farnham when he died at age 37) and the youngest, reflecting the growing trend of middle names, ‘Richard Willmer Hawk‘ (a hosiery maker in Tewkesbury)

Daughter, Elizabeth Willmer married a London gold and silver smith called Marmaduke Daintrey who specialised in the making of sterling silver spoons, still available from time to time in auction sales today. When Elizabeth’s father made his Will in 1760, the unfortunate couple had lost three successive sons, all called Marmaduke. Finally, Marmaduke John Daintrey, was born and survived to inherit his father’s estate, became an attorney, and set himself up as a gentleman of Petworth. By 1760, Elizabeth and Marmaduke had taken a house in Hartley Row, Hampshire and are both buried in Hartley Wintney church. According to a Hartley Wintney history site: ‘In the 1700’s, the coaching route from London to the West allowed various trades to flourish, and housing was built along the coach road and this area became known as Hartley Row.’ As we shall see in the next post on Richard Willmer Junior, the choice of the Hartley Wintney area was not a coincidence, as Marmaduke Daintrey was one the trustees of his brother-in-law’s estate with responsibilities for Richard Junior’s widow and children.

1752 Silver Table Spoon made by spoon specialist, Marmaduke Daintrey

Daughter, Jane Willmer was married to a Petersfield man, Thomas Burch in 1746, the son of a Petersfield inn keeper. Both Thomas Burch and his brother Henry were Petersfield schoolmasters at one time, but from Thomas Burch’s Will, we know that he derived his income from the cutlery trade, bookbinding, and bookselling. When Jane’s sister, Mary Eyles died, the western half of their father’s property in Farnham passed to Jane, meaning it immediately became part of her husband’s portfolio – no property ownership for a married woman. In terms of family, however, the marriage was marred by tragedy as each of their four children died shortly after birth. Jane outlived her husband so the Farnham property in Dogflood reverted to her and she named her nephew, Thomas Willmer, as her heir.

Daughter, Joan Willmer married in Holborn, London in 1749, a man called William Turner – we know this as the marriage record says that Joan Willmer came from Farnham. Unfortunately, the name ‘Turner’ was so common in London that further research is impossible, especially as the marriage record did not mention William Turner’s trade. We do know that in 1760, the couple had a son called Thomas according to Richard Willmer’s Will; however, in the 1794 Will of Jane Burch discussed above, another son, Richard Turner, is mentioned but not Thomas.

Grandchildren Thomas, Richard, and Anne Wilmer were all provided for by their grandfather, Richard Willmer, as by 1760, they were orphans. We will look at these three in the next post.


Here we have set the scene for the next episode of the Willmer story. Over a hundred years before Willmer House in West Street became so named, we have the Willmers well-established in Farnham with an outlier in Petersfield and the Hartley Wintney area.


Select Sources

  • London Metropolitan Archives and Guildhall Library Manuscripts Section, Clerkenwell, London, England; Reference Number: DW/PC/5/1761; Will Number: 12
  • Farnham and District Museum Society Journal, Vol 13, no 10: The search for the house of Richard Willmer (Pat Heather)
  • Google Books
  • ancestry.com (by subscription)